Stop now *
Yesterday, somebody left a nasty message in my shoutbox and I was surprised reading it. The message was in Malay so I guess it must have been left by somebody local. It affected my mood yesterday but I managed to forget about it for awhile and replied comments from Ken and Marzie. I slept early yesterday trying to forget the whole thing and woke up early today feeling a bit better. I deleted the message and ban the IP. I simply think that those sort of message just cannot be entertained.
Whoever you are, please stop now and just leave me alone in my tiny world.
* The first person to leave a comment on any post title that ends with a star will receive a link back to his or her blog for being my first commentator!
1st Commentator:
Zana! Click on picture to read her blog!
109 Comments
Zana
Let them be.
Now I remember why I refused to put on a shoutbox. Negative comments could affect my day. So I’d rather avoid it.
Good luck.
restnrileks
tak patut betul..
maybe you should give us the ip address, nanti semua emillians pergi serang dia..
Kak emi, you are such a great person, dont let those few sentences get to you.. let alone by anonymous user..
jangan bagi biar itu komen ganggu hari jadi kak emila yer…
emila
thank you zana! i am considering taking the box out.
emila
tu lah rizal…saya tk kacau orang, orang nak kacau saya.
emila
ip dia yang tiga terawal je ada yang the last one tu was recorded as xxx in the system.
Mariuca
Oh poor dear, and on ur besday tu!!! Don make me angers la!! 🙁
Mariuca
I agree with Rizal! We shall happily go and serang balas if we know who this fella is. All Emilians get ready!! 🙂
Mariuca
Tak suka la org-org local ni buat malu kat Emila’s blog!! 🙁
emila
that’s why la marzie! so upset yest! lucky got you and ken online yest night.
emila
there’s no link to the name so, I doubt if we can serang.
emila
that’s why marzie! some more local!
Mariuca
Emila, forget these narrow-minded fools! They just wanna bring u down, by saying nasty things about you and your LOVE-ly blog! I say ignore them, but it will be sad if u have to remove ur shoutbox kan? Don’t let them get the better of you, be strong and keep ur chin up woman! *BIG HUGS*
Mariuca
I can imagine Emila!! I didn’t know until today, kalau tak…for sure dah console u awal-awal lagi!
Mariuca
Tau takut dia tak nak leave link! Cis! 🙁
emila
ok! then it’ll stay there!! thank you for consoling me marzie! big hugs!
Mariuca
Dat’s the saddest part, tak blh tgk orang senang sikit, mula la nak jelesi! 🙁
emila
tulah, the person leave the name as Leen!
Mariuca
No worries Emila! I’m oso sad this happened on ur birthday! Group hug! Who wants to join us? 🙂
emila
penuh dengan hasad dengki…
Mariuca
We no like Leen here, pls stop visiting Emila’s Illustrated Blog! 🙁
emila
group hugs! thanks marzie!
Mariuca
Buat la blog sendiri kalau jelesi tgk org punya sukses! Mmg tak patut this Leen! Balik kampung tanam jagung je la he he! 😉
emila
Wahaha so funny la you!
emila
Ya, sila balik kampung tanam jagung dan kacang atau cili api!
milkberry
Hi Missus Emila! Huggles! Ppl with negative comments sucks. If they can’t say something nice, they shouldn’t say anything at all.
Debbie
Hai Kak Emila.! Sorry you received a nasty comment like that. Ntah apa la dia cakap, tapi on your bday some more, jahat betul!
I used to have shout box at Ramblings and CraftnSwap, but I took them out. I just hate those advertisements.
Hope you’re having a great day nonetheless. :):) *lotsa hugs*
Bobby Revell
Hi Emila! All you need to do is actually sign in as administrator to your shoutbox (maybe you are already). I stay signed into mine and a little “delete” button appears near each message. I’ve banned several people too with the banning feature. Most people don’t know they can sign into it – if not, you can’t see those features.
Hopefully they will go away 🙂
roxychick
jahatnye org tu..
eventho i dont know whats the content of her/his comment, tapi still tak patut la nak buat camtu?
what’s her/his prob mannn?
psiko tul..
anyway.. buat tak tau jela dgn org2 camtu.
they are just plain stupid!
Khemy
emi dia cakap aper?
ni yang best ni..aku kan busybody..:P
bonoriau
Emila Sabar je deh!!! Manusia ada pelbagai…we learn from their character.
I just want to make small suggestion…why not you link your RSS dolly to your feedburner so we have choice.
emila
ya cik busybody, sila lihat email anda di yahoo.
mangosteenskin
oh, i’ve been there kak emila. memang psycho orang itu.
saya sampai menggobek traffic cari dari mana visitor itu datang. i wish kalaulah saya ni IT genius, saya mau hack komputer dia kalau dia cuba nak online next time.Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.
sabarlah kak emila, ini semua asam garam menjadi blogger!
i like blog with shoutbox sbb kadang2 unable to comment, lebih mudah tinggalkan msg kat shoutbox! janganlah delete k!
Khemy
takper mi, yang penting sukses..
kepada orang itew, kalau berani perkenalkan la diri..kalau tak nak, GTH!
Trinity
This post makes me angry… how could he! Huh!
Don’t think about this Emila, remember that somebody stole the whole posts of mine? it still happen until now, and I just let it go… never let it bother my life.
bluecrystaldude aka haaziq
Wow.. Thanks for the point Bobby. I will take note myself! Just for future reference
Mrs Imran
hmm..perhaps you could use another type of shoutbox than allow you to moderate the comment coming in.
shoutbox is always good to have and convinience to readers too
LadyJava
Wah first Jean..now you… what is wrong with this pple..can’t leave pple in peace… I hope you won’t let it affect your birthday ya dearie.. 🙂
Happy Birthday again!!
bluecrystaldude aka haaziq
Yeah, I think you should not take down your shoutbox Kak Emila. Lagipun akak leh delete kan msg tu? Now lets hope that there will be no other people doing the same thing twice!
annyboo
i believe its a feeling of envy. People with small hearts are like that. They cannot see other people getting attention.
Its your day today Emila… dun let this spoil your day! Take the day off and just laze around with ur loved ones.
Have a very very happy birthday.. hope there’s cake & ice-cream 😀
bluecrystaldude aka haaziq
I think that person just jealous with your works here. Envy is poisoning. Well, I hope who ever the person was, if you read this, please just mind your own pity self. It just not worth it trying to bad mouth about others
emila
hi milkberry! huggles! i think so too!
emila
tu lah debbie! I dun mind the ads but nasty comments like that sucks!
emila
memang jahat!
emila
tulah, GTH to her/him!
emila
ok bono, will do!
thanks for the advice!
emila
saya pun megobek jugak, manggis! nama dia nama perempuan dan saya dapat IP dia 3 yang pertama, yng last xxx je!
emila
that’s why trin! maybe he is a she.
thanks trin!
emila
thank you lj! itulah orang orang ni suka nak merosakkan reputasi orang.
emila
thank you so much anny! yeah, i think they have small heart too.
emila
thank you haaziq for giving the warning to the culprit!
Ken
I hope the comment didn’t hit you that hard. Anyway I always tell my friends that if it is constructive comments take and heed it. If it is destructive comments just forget about it. No point in making us feel all sad inside. As the day passes by whether we’re happy or sad!
Ken
Btw I was out the whole day, and so many things happen… Just forget about it and think how Marzie and I entertained you with out msg 😉
annyboo
so is there cake in the house? Let’s all sing Happy Birthday together to Emila!
annyboo
Happy Beeday to yoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
annyboo
Happy Beedayyyyy to yoooooooooooooooo
annyboo
Happy Birthday tooooooooooooooooooooo Emilaaaaaa
annyboo
*close ur eyes and make a wish*
annyboo
Happy Happy Happy 😀 ;P 🙂 Birthday to yooooooooooooooooooooooo…. Awooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo…. oooooo oooo oooo 😀
mangosteenskin
same to me kak emila! yg terakhir tu cuma xxx! i’m sure kat luar sana mesti ada bijak pandai yg tahu mcmn nak cari IP address yg sebenar kan! jika ada yg tahu dan nak ajar kan best. hehe.
tapi walaupun kita x tahu IP yg lengkap, tp mmg dah boleh agak dia mengomen dari area mana kan. i guess leen ni nama penuh dia Leentah kot.Hihi.
bonoriau
Emila I sent you email. Thank you
T.H
emila, I was unable online all day as modem something wrong. Now I am back. Sorry dear to hear bout the shoutout box. I don’t have shoutout box as you see, my friend told me hers become a spam box.
T.H
agree with Ken forget about it!
Kima
Happppppyyyy Burthdayyyyyyy Emila! Thanx to Bonoriau’s twit, I managed to wish you 🙂 Too busy these days, but its chances like this that I cherish – the chance to wish a friend on her birthday 🙂
And hey who is this shoutbox fool irritating you? Tell him/her one tight slap coming from me.
yoon see
I do agree with you Ken, just forget about it.
I do believe everyone at some point of time, whether you are lady or man will get some nasty messages like that. I did experienced some similar case like this, forget & move on,
time will heal Emila:) Take care.
Nessa
The best option is to ignore the bugger. We, Emilians stand by you! 😀 *hugs*
Buang jauh2 apa dia tulis tu… takde maknanyer… hehe
Nessa
Hi TH! How are you today? 😀
Nessa
*tumpang group hugs jugak* 😀
Jean Chia
hi emila! im sry to hear about that! and im so sry for not being there for you yesterday! so sry, dear! but im here now and you hv my full support!!
i didnt see the msg at yr shoutbox lar, u removed them? anyway, dont listen to it! whatever nasty thing it said, it is nothing like you. this thing, what i would like to call as “Blog Politic” happens all the time, when one is jeles of another successful blog. So you might want to look at this at a different perspective. That is ppl thought highly of your blog and they get jeles! 🙂
Boohoo to it for not being able to have an open heart! Jean Chia Love Emila & Emila’s Illustrated Blog! You rocks, woman! cheerf up,k! Love & Hugs!!
Jean Chia
emila, im sry for not visiting lately. connection hv been very slow. it’s so annoying that it keeps disconnecting!! ><
Mariuca
Ha ha ha! Tanam cili api gitu! 🙂
Mariuca
Ida!! Podah kat dia org tu kan? He he!!
Mariuca
Yay! Ken n I helped entertain Emila!! 🙂
Mariuca
Yay Nessa oso join hugsy wugsy!! 🙂
laketrees
I was very saddened to read about your rude intruder…
things like that can be very upsetting and on your birthday too Emila….
some people don’t have a life…:0
on a happier note…clappies to Ken for winning the dolly…
your photo of your son and the dolly is lovely..
ps don’t forget if you are going to make future dollies ..I would love to order one 🙂 🙂
Ken
Wah banyaknys org concern about u. Jadi org tu pun tak penting lagi. Yg penting, skg kami semua support !!! yay!!!! 😉
Ken
cili padi, i think not a gud idea. dah budak gila tu panas wif all the comment gila tu…tanam ubi better…
Khemy
leentah? huarharharhar..LROTF
emila
I’m too lazy to moderate, Mrs Imran. I think it’s ok now. I’ve banned the IP from leaving any comments.
emila
Wahaha ken, gud idea!
emila
yay! hugs!
emila
Bobby I did went inside shoutbox’s admin and banned the IP and later deleted it. I did mention it above. Anyhow, I am not quite happy that the IP have xxx at the end of it.
emila
hahaha podah!
emila
hahaha leentah gitu! I like your attitude!
emila
Khemy, ko kat opis ek? Anak sihat?
emila
not that hard now, ken. at first it was hard coz the message accusing me to be a bad person. but now, am oka oredi, besides i gotta loads of support form you guys!
love you all!
emila
thanks yoon see!
emila
oh thank you so much ken and marzie for hanging out here consoling me! love, love you guys!
emila
got one! imaginary one la! ok, sing to me!
emila
ok ok….*emila blows 39 candles!*
emila
yay! *clap clap*
Thank you Anny!!! Muakksss!
emila
ok bono, sent a reply oredi!
emila
Sandman!!!! thank you thank you! Omigosh, you’re here! Thank you for the wish and thank you for sending a slap for the fool!
emila
i like the word bugger! Thank you Nessa! hugsy!
emila
I removed the message and banned the IP address! I simply hate to see it there!
Thank you Jean! love & hugs too!
yoon see
Love you too emila:)
You know, we are here for you!
emila
Jean, it’s ok! I totally understand!
emila
Thank you for your concern, Kim! Yes, I think they don’t have life too and wasting their times leaving bad comments on people’s shoutbox.
Oh, I am so gonna make few limited edition stuffed dollies soon! Will let you know first!
emila
Betul tu, Ken! thank you everybody!!! I love you all big time!!!
bonoriau
Congrats for your 310 twitter followers
emila
yay yoon see! thank you so much!
emila
Yay Bono! It has been more than a week since the last update!
Dookie
ape ek org tu taip… do u know him/her?
Ken
yup!!! our support surpasses everything bad vibes…LOL good will always triumph!!!
Khemy
yer..podah..chit!!
Metz - Empty Streets
awww who ever the meanie was am sure Karma is going to hit right back soon, if not we’d gladly put up a front for yah… tsk tsk tsk people like that really are just plain losers that have nothing better to do than to look for other people to share their misery to. Tight hugs deary 🙂 You should focus more on celebrating your fab bday 🙂
Shinade
Oh Emilla,
How could anybody do such a thing to some one so sweet as you?
You know Emilla I had some one leave a comment about last week or so on 3 different occasions that was all in Malay.
I just ignored it thinking someone thought I spoke or read Malay.
Maybe it was a bad message too. But they went away and haven’t come back since.
Oh I just hate that this happened to you and on your birthday too!!
Here’s a great big hug for you!
Shinade
Thank you so much for dropping by and looking at my picture for today.
That was such a special thing to do for me. and it really meant a great deal to me.
Thank you thank you thank you:-)
laketrees
thanks Emila
that’s great news 🙂
Liz
Kak Emila..
This is late, I know, but wish you a very2 belated happy bday and many happy returns..
Just drop by to support you and poke that “Leen” eyes for being so jealousy froggie.
I was being on and off visiting ur blog & this is my 1st time leaving a comment. huhuhhu. All the besh! Muahs!